Justin's grandpa passed away a couple of weeks ago. He was a great man and left a legacy of faith, service, and hard work. I found his testimony in an old history of the Uintah Basin and copied it down...
"We want to bear testimony to the truthfulness of the Gospel that makes eternal progress possible. We have found in life that it is important to pay attention to seemingly small things. Everything regardless of its size has its place in our Father's eternal scheme. Greatness can be measured by how much attention we pay to small details. We cannot afford to ignore little things, good or evil. Often the little sins of omission are as bad as sins committed. If we fail to reach eternal happiness, it will not be because of the big things entirely but rather the little details that caused us to miss our goal. Joseph Smith's greatness hinged on paying attention to the small details; thus, our happiness will be in the observance of these same principles."
I only have a handful of pictures of him...Grandma and Grandpa with Tiana and Molly-June 2007 Justin, Stockton, Gene, and Grandpa-Thanksgiving 2009Grandpa and Molly-May 2010Stockton, Justin, Grandpa, Grandma and Molly-May 2010Camille, Justin, Eric, April, Brett, Grandpa, Grandma, Gene-January 2011
It seems like each year I post about how we keep busy in the winter. Lately we have started to feel the drudgery of staying inside every day, all day. Molly asks when it's going to be summer almost every day and I'm kind of wondering the same thing. Life has definitely slowed down for a little bit and since I'm not trying to play catch up on my blog I'm able to share little day-to-day happenings...
Molly and I still do our daily activities. We rarely miss (probably because I almost always make sure I'm home for Stockton's nap) and they still continue to excite her. She can choose an activity out of our jar or she can make one up on her own. We do lots of different things, but here are the activities that I remembered to take a picture of:
-building a hut out of blankets and playing games-playing with blocks and Mr. Potato HeadThis particular game is silly, but a favorite of hers. There are 3 houses (one straw, one stick, and one brick), we make 3 potato heads (for the three pigs), and the giant potato head is always the wolf. And then we act out The Three Little Pigs.
-make/play with PlaydoughShe said that Grandpa Gene taught her to hang the playdough like this.
-have a tea party-paint our fingernails and toenailsIf you look closely you'll notice that every toenail and fingernail is painted a different color.
-and lots of crafts like this Valentine picture frame that we covered in conversation heartsI love looking at these pictures and seeing the various outfits she has chosen! These short activities have been awesome and allow me to have a little free time in the day as well. If I invest a little time playing with her then she'll quietly head to her room after and play for a while. Much better than the constant "Mom, will you do this with me" all day and me always being too busy and then feeling guilty for not playing.
I've also been trying to spend more one-on-one time playing with Stockton before his nap. This is harder for a second child...when Molly's not at school she plays with us which is great but I do enjoy having some time with him all to myself.
We had fun one night after FHE making these snowmen out of doughnuts...fun to make and even more fun to eat!Of course a trip to the cabin always alleviates some wintertime boredom.We're lucky if we are able to make it once a season but we went twice this winter...once with my family and this past weekend we took Justin's family.
We had a bought of sickness, although pretty mild. I won't complain-last year Stockton had three or four ear infections. The tubes cleared that problem up quite well. Stockton's eyes keep running (instead of his nose) but I'm sure that will clear up. I took him to the doctor after a few days of a cough. As a precaution the doc wanted an X-ray of his lungs. They were clear and the cough cleared up after a few more days.Molly also had a trip to the doctor, only not for any sort of sickness, just a nasty bonk on her head. It was at the chaotic time of evening...I was trying to get dinner ready, the kids were hungry but I didn't want to feed them snacks, and they were both starting to get tired...you know how it is. I was changing Stockton's diaper when I heard a crash, a bang, followed by crying. My first thought was that it was just dramatics but she instantly got really sleepy (like falling asleep into her dinner) and about 30 minutes later started throwing up. I called the on-call pediatrician who told me to take her straight to the emergency room. Poor girl was miserable...lethargic, sleepy, and couldn't stop throwing up. Thankfully, Justin was able to meet me there. Since she's had a concussion before they were concerned about potential damage-we didn't have to wait too long for her to get checked out and have a CatScan. All was clear there too although we were told she had suffered a severe concussion. We were able to bring her home with strict instructions not let her do pretty much anything for two weeks. I was so scared to take my eyes off her I made Justin sleep on the couch that night and Molly slept with me!
Okay, moving on. Stockton is still just as crazy as ever. Boys sure are made different than girls! He is exhausting and hilarious all at the same time. We sure love him though. Sometimes in an effort to keep him from tearing apart the whole house (which I swear he can do in less than 10 minutes) I let him wash the dishes. Sure he gets soaked and the floor always needs mopped up after but this will entertain him for a long, long time. And instead of a mess all over the house, I only have one small mess to clean up.And when all else fails and you're just as bored as ever, you can always pretend to be goats and eat paper...
(Sometimes Molly will get Stockton dressed as well as herself...like take off his pajamas and everything. Tonight she tried changing his diaper and did pretty good.)
Feb 27: We went shopping with my mom and sister. We spent a lot of time at one store and Molly got hot and bored. When we were leaving she said, "I'm so glad we are done. That was so hot and...like...fashionable." Big sigh.
Jan 7: "Dad, today was so busy I didn't even get an opportunity to fight with boy."
January 2012: Stockton found some Tums and was wanting to eat them. I told him no because they would make him sick. Molly explained it further: "Stocky, it's just like what the devil does. He makes something look really good or exciting but it's not really that good or exciting at all."
November 1: "Mom, can I have some ranch for my carrots? Oh never mind, I didn't know they were melted." (cooked carrots, rather than raw)
November 1: "Wow, this water is ice hot!"
October: Every time a decision has to be made, Molly plays eeney-meeney-miney-moe . She tries to do it so nobody notices but I know exactly what she is doing!
8-30 Molly and I were playing a guessing game in the car. I was trying to get her to guess the word "arrow." Me: "It points you in the right direction..." Molly: "Jesus!!"
8-12 Molly was reading the story of Nephi getting the brass plates: "And then Nephi found Laban and he was drooped." (she meant drunk)
7-15 Molly was playing with an attachment for the vacuum-twirling it in the air like a baton. "Mom, watch me crouton this!"
6-26 Molly told us this joke on the way home from church: Which ghost has the best hearing? The eeriest!
6-13 Molly trying to get Stockton to say "helicopter:" "Stocky, say hell. Stocky say hell."
6-12 To Stockton: "The car won't say hi back to you, buddy."
6-10 Molly and Gavin were eating sour watermelon candy when Molly asked Gavin, "Do you want me to suck the sour off for you?"
USU Graduation, May 2007
Seattle, Washington, August 2008
Louisville, Kentucky, May 2009
June 25, 2009
Stockton Ray
2 years
April 29: starts sleeping in a "big boy" bed
May 2011: gets confused with hot and cold-calls everything hot; becomes obsessed with cars and trucks; can finally say his own name
May 30: Figured out how to climb to the top bunk-yikes!
end of May/early June- Stockton's last tooth comes in
August: says "Da-ee" and "Mo-ee" for Daddy and Molly
August 17: poops in the toilet!
August 21: pees in the toilet
September: calls Justin "Daddi-o" (he does this when he's happy, angry, sad, silly, you name it!); knows all his colors; counts to ten: "one, free, four, ten!"
October 2nd: We were watching General Conference. Stockton heard the congregation laugh after something President Monson said so he giggles and says: "Si-ee prophet."
November 5: Justin and I were watching a college football game downstairs long after we'd put the kids to bed. All of a sudden we hear Stockton clear upstairs yell "Tackle football game!" and run downstairs to watch.
November: His night-time farewell: "Night-night M&M face head!" in the silliest voice he can muster. He came up with it on his own.
November: At dinner each night we say what we are thankful for. Every time we ask what he is thankful for he says "crayons." All month long.
Dec 15: "Stocky, is daddy a boy or a girl?" "A boy." "Is Stockton a boy or a girl?" "Boy." "Is mommy a boy or a girl?" "Girl." "Is Molly a boy or a girl?" "Girl." "Is Brynn a boy or a girl?" "A baby."
December: It's been fun watching Stockton get excited for Christmas. He says "Merry Santa!"
Dec 21: Stockton has croup. He had to get a steroid shot.
Jan 12: Just playing tonight and out of the blue Stockton says, "Dad, I be baby Jesus!" and lays down on Justin's chest
Jan 19: Stocky is constantly telling us this joke he make up: "Mom, I have a joke for you." "What?" "What you eat for breakfast?" "What?" "A crib!" And then he says the whole thing again.
late February: Asking Stockton why Brynn is crying (he hit her): "Stockton, why is Brynn crying?" "Whaaaa!" "No, Stockton, why is Brynn crying?" "Whaaaa!" He gets his "who, what, where, when, why, and how's" a little mixed up.
Feb. 28: Stocky threw his binkies away today!!
Mar. 1: love that he says cute things like: "doonin'" = doing "Hold you" when he wants to be held
Mar. 25: "Mom, let's go play rice frisbee." (He wants to play catch with the frisbee.)
May 12: Stocky stays dry in underwear all day!
March 2010
March 7, 2011
Brynn April
13 months
June 30- rolls over belly to back
mid July-starts playing with her toes
September 7-turns 6 months old and has her first taste of baby food: rice cereal
September 11-Brynn's been getting up on her hands and knees and rocking forward and backward for very short amounts of time. I'm hoping that crawling is still a long way off!
September 18-She's been practicing sitting up on her own and is getting so strong. She can sit on her own for long periods of time now and only falls over when she is reaching for something.
September: Molly and Stockton have been calling her "coo-coo"
October 5: starts crawling!
October 20: Today she went from crawling to sitting. She is also trying so hard to pull herself up on things.
October: starts babbling a lot: mostly "da-da" but a few "ma-ma's" and "ba-ba's" too
October 31: First Halloween. Noticed today that her first tooth was starting to come in. On the bottom (middle left).
November 30: Second tooth. Bottom, middle, right.
end November: Brynn has not been sleeping well. She's always gone right back to sleep when I feed her but now she's up for hours at a time. We've had to start letting her cry it out if she wakes up before a certain time at night.
December: saying "ma ma" a lot
December: Brynn has been mimicking us. At dinner we all put both arms in the air and she smiles and does the same.
December 10: Brynn stood on her own for literally a full 5 seconds! She starts doing this more and more over the next few weeks. She's getting very brave.
December 12: Noticed first tooth coming in on the top. Middle right.
Dec 19: first ponytail!
Dec 25: starts walking along furniture
last week in December: Justin's been holding Brynn's fingers and helping her walk all around the house. She is getting so strong and is actually very stable.
Jan 3, 2012: Brynn slept all night!
Jan 9: first steps...very wobbly, but they were steps alright!
second week in Jan: 4th tooth came in. Top, middle, right
Jan. 22: starts climbing the stairs
mid-February: gives kisses
last week in February: starts climbing on everything!
March 14: At her 12-month well-check she weighed 14 lbs 4 oz. She also got 4 shots!
Mar 21: 5th tooth-top left
April 1: nursed Brynn for the last time
tooth #6, 7, & 8: mid-April, end April, mid-May
June 23: first haircut
Disneyland, June 2011
October 2011
"Every sister who stands for truth and righteousness diminishes the influence of evil. Every sister who strengthens and protects her family is doing the work of God. Every sister who lives as a woman of God becomes a beacon for others to follow and plants seeds of righteous influence that will be harvested for decades to come."