Saturday, January 29, 2011

She {still} loves to dance

I took Molly to the Nutcracker last month. She had been wanting to go since last Christmas so I decided she was old enough to go this year. I didn't know how she would do, considering the performance has no talking, only music and dance. But she really enjoyed it and asked about a million questions during it. Good thing it was a family-friendly show! After the show she became obsessed with anything to do with The Nutcracker...we found a Barbie Nutcracker movie at the library and I dug out my old Nutcracker CD. She likes to dress all in pink, pretend to be Clara, and dance around the house.

Another huge milestone was her very first dance recital. I honestly didn't know how she would do, since she really doesn't like performing in front of people (let's just say the Primary Program did not go well). She seemed excited though and had been prepped plenty by her dance teachers and her mom and dad! The dress rehearsal went well and she was so proud of herself that night. Here she is with the rest of her class...The following night was the night of the show. Molly had lots of support in the audience...Justin, Stockton, and me, plus Grandma and Grandpa Goodrich, Grandma and Grandpa Moyes, Chloe and Abby. I got her all ready and then took her to the dressing room where she would hang out before and between her two numbers. I didn't really want to just leave her there but she assured me she would be fine so I left to watch the other dancers. Pretty soon it was her turn. I don't know if she felt nervous at all, but I was extremely anxious. I just wanted her to get out there and have fun and not freeze up. I knew she would be so disappointed if she didn't do her best. Well she made us proud...she got up on that stage and danced her heart out. It was very fun to watch.

She seriously smiled the whole time (and did something weird with her tongue).

The best part of the night? At the end of her second dance, they turned the lights off and all the little girls were being ushered off the stage. Everyone was cheering and shouting out names (we were no exception) and Molly stayed up there on stage, holding on to her skirt and just smiling, soaking it all in. She was the last one to leave and only after her teacher came back to get her.

I was relieved and so happy to see her having so much fun. She insisted on staying until the end when all the dancers got to go back on stage for the finale. I guess we have a little performer on our hands!For me it was a bittersweet night. Sweet, because I was so happy for her and proud of her accomplishments. She also felt very proud of herself-it was a huge boost of confidence for her. Bitter, because she really didn't need her mommy at all. She made new friends in the dressing room and hardly noticed when I came to get her. She is growing up and while I want her to have new experiences, branch out on her own, and gain self-confidence, I'm not sure how I feel about it happening so soon!

Saturday, January 22, 2011

Christmas Highlights

-Christmas Eve dinner (by candlelight) with Justin's family. Yummy food, some traditional and a few new things.

-Molly got to be Mary for the Nativity. Luke played Joseph.
-Uncle Brett gave all the kids Zhu-zhu pets!-Singing Christmas songs around the piano.

-Mom sat in the back seat all the way home that night. She read Christmas books by the light of a headlamp so the kids would stay awake.

-Putting cookies and milk out for Santa. Molly wanted to put them on the front porch so Santa would be sure to see them. Hope they weren't too frozen for him!

-Listening to Daddy read "Twas the Night Before Christmas" before bed.

-Waking up on Christmas morning to see that Santa really had come!

**This year Santa brought both kids bean bags. Molly got the CD player she had asked for (Hello Kitty) and Stockton got a bulldozer. He also stuffed their stockings full of fun things...a movie and slippers for each of them; bubble bath, fingernail polish, gumball machine, and treats for Molly; hammer, car, and goldfish crackers for Stockton, just to name a few.**
-Finding that there were actually presents under the tree! (No presents were put under the tree until kids went to bed Christmas Eve. We were certain Stockton would unwrap them.)

-Finally getting to open the presents under the tree. To stretch out the present-unwrapping frenzy, we wait to open our gifts from each other after a nice, sit-down breakfast.

**Molly got games (Memory, UNO, Go Fish, Old Maid) and workbooks from Mom, a Rapunzel shirt from Stockton, and a singing Rapunzel doll from dad.**
**Stockton got chunky, wooden puzzles from Mom, golf clubs and a bowling set from Dad, and a jack-in-the box from Molly (she had decided to give that to him months ago).**-Grandma April and Grandpa Gene coming down for a visit to see what Santa brought. They also brought gifts for the kids.-Going to visit the other set of grandparents in Plain City. Getting spoiled there as well.-Being able to actually spend some unhurried, unstructured time with Grandma and Grandpa. Being the only grandkids there for a few hours so getting their undivided attention. Playing with lots of new toys.

-Waking up the next morning to find that all the toys were still there. The magical day before really wasn't just a really good dream!
We really had a wonderful Christmas. I completely enjoyed every single part of it and would repeat it every year if I could. I enjoyed spending time with my small family (which is about to get bigger-yikes!) as well as my extended family (missed you Browns and Broadbents). We felt truly blessed as we put our kids to bed that night.

Here is the obligatory family picture in front of my parents Charlie Brown-ish, but very cute, Christmas tree...

Friday, January 14, 2011

Writing Practice

Molly loves to draw, color, and write. She's been writing letters for a while now and asking me how to spell things. Lately she has been sounding words out for herself...we find all sorts of little notes lying around the house. Some are too hard to decipher but there are quite a few that we are able to figure out. When I've remembered, I've written them down (she only uses capital letters):

Dec 2: HP HOLUDA YOR GRAT I LUV YO
"Happy Holidays. You're Great. I love you."

Dec 10: SATU
"Santa"

Dec 14: SOTIN
"Stockton"

Dec 16: JAD I LUV YO I LIK YO
"Jade, I love you, I like you."

Dec 21: DOG KLIMD UP
"Dog climbed up"

Jan 6: DEAR GROPU GDRIHC GT BEETT MOLLY
"Dear Grandpa Goodrich, Get better. Molly"

Jan 13: I LUV DAD BKUZ HE PLAY WIF ME
"I love Dad because he plays with me."

She is also into reading. She is really quite good at sounding out short three or four letter words. There have been a few times when I thought that no way would she figure it out, but she has! She likes it when I write down short sentences and she's so proud of herself when she figures it out!

Molly is also a little computer whiz (as are most kids her age). If I let her, she would play on the computer all day long. These are her favorite websites, all of which she is able to navigate by herself:
-Starfall
-Storynory
-Disney Princesses
-The Friend
-Kideos
-Coloring 4 All

Tuesday, January 11, 2011

The Christmas Season

Being a parent is great any time of the year, but especially fun at Christmastime. Both the kids this year were so fun. Molly was old enough to get the Santa thing and just thought that everything was magical-Christmas lights, trees, everything about the whole season. Stockton wasn't old enough to get the Santa thing but it sure was fun to watch him just take it all in. He loved Christmas trees, lights, and of course learned to say "Ho, ho, ho" whenever he saw a picture of Santa.

After having done the Advent Activities last year (here, here, and here), I felt a little obligated to do it again this year. Of course we had fun-Molly loved every minute of it-but 24 activities was hard to think of this year! I think I'll cut it down to 12 next year for sure. Someday I would like to own a cute countdown, but for now we went with the good old paper chain. Each day Molly got to cut off a link and read what activity was written.Day 1: Paper snowflakesDay 2: Homemade Christmas T-shirtDay 3: Paper plate RudolphDay 4: Cookie/Ornament Exchange party with neighbors

Day 5: Christmas corn and the Christmas DevotionalDay 6: Festival of Lights here in Spanish ForkDay 7: Worked on Justin's Christmas presents from the kids

Day 8: Candy ornamentsDay 9: Decorated gingerbread men cookiesDay 10: Visit to see SantaDay 11: Date with Daddy-Christmas shopping and ice cream

Day 12: Watched a new Christmas movie (The Grinch)

Day 13: Popsicle stick Christmas treeDay 14: Made gifts for Molly's friends and cousins

Day 15: Gingerbread man chainDay 16: Made neighbor gifts

Day 17: Colored an ABC Christmas book

Day 18: Took Grandma to The NutcrackerDay 19: Delivered neighbor gifts

Day 20: A special Christmas FHE

Day 21: Snow day!Day 22: Movie party with friends (Polar Express and popcorn)

Day 23: Made cookies for Santa

Day 24: Wrapped last-minute presents

And to stretch out the Christmas season a bit longer, we went to the Zoo Lights a couple of days after Christmas. Boy, was it cold! Kids don't really seem to feel the cold, though, and we enjoyed walking around for a couple of hours before finishing the night off with some hot chocolate.